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Another Tongue Down my Throat
November 2006
So just 30 minutes ago, it happened again, another man proceeded
to thrust his tongue down my throat at the beginning of a
1st kiss good night! This guy had just run the New York Marathon
and was from Italy so maybe you could say it was a foreign
thing but it also happened with a good ole Texan, in Austin
just two weeks before! Wass up Guys? Maybe somehow they think
this is one way of showing us their manhood? Maybe they were
never taught the fine etiquette of kissing—mama never
taught them!? Or maybe they just haven’t been properly
slapped!?!
Well as a Kissing and Connection Coach—I can tell you
that this just isn’t the way to melt a woman! Lips,
lips, lips!!! And more Lips! Pressing oh so gently yet firmly
against hers. Between these two tongue-men , I was kissed
by the best kisser I have ever kissed--he was a master on
the use of lips! Probably also didn’t hurt that he was
a Scorpio—the most passionate lovers in the zodiac,
that is if you believe that sort of thing?! He used his tongue
as an extension of his lips, moving like the ocean tide, in
and out, in and out, in and out…..oops sorry it has
been awhile since I had good sex…of my mouth--having
me not only melt but willing to obey his every command!
And alas, I will truly miss him! Not to worry, there are
so many more frogs to kiss girls, so get out there and start
slapping those that slip you the tongue and start adoring
the princes that give you the lip service you deserve!!!
Get what you want for Valentine’s Day—A
Date!
February 2007
It is that time again, New Year’s resolutions, looking
back at the last year and seeing what we did and did not accomplish
and looking at what we want to create this new year. If one
of your New Year’s resolutions is to be dating and even
have a date by Valentines Day, then one thing you might want
to do, is do something different if what you have been doing
hasn’t been working? Here are 10 something different
activities that work if you are willing to leave significance
at home and add play and possibility--I call them the Attraction
Action Plan:
1. Release your cynicism and resignation that you can’t
have what you want! Really get that you are the one that creates
how your world goes so give up those old ways of being and
realize that anything is possible.
2. Write out and I do mean write it out not just think it,
what you want your Valentine’ Day to look like! Describe
in a visual manner what happens that day and make sure you
write it in past tense like it has already happened!
For example: He called at 2pm to confirm our date and told
me he can’t wait to see me. I told him the babysitter
was set up and he told me he was happy to pay for her and
had a surprise for me tonite! After I got home, I immediately
got ready and everything went smoothly getting ready! My
daughter gave me a big hug and kiss and a Valentine’s
day card that she made which I will keep forever. She then
happily ran out to play with the neighborhood kids. The
babysitter arrived on time and my daughter was happy to
see her again. He rang the doorbell and greeted me with
a dozen red roses, box of Godiva chocolates and the most
wonderful Valentine’s Day Card I have ever received!
My heart was melting from the generosity and adoration he
displayed. He walked me to the limousine and the driver
opened the door where champagne, chocolate covered strawberries
and great music were waiting. We cozy up to each other and
kissed the entire time on the way to the restaurant—it
didn’t even seem like we had been kissing that long—time
stood still. He had made reservations at my favorite restaurant
and we went all out that night with the food: appetizers,
salad, main course, dessert, wine and drinks! We sat close
to each other and held hands when we weren’t eating
and gave each other smooches from time to time! Our conversations
were fun, playful and full of deep intriguing topics that
made us feel like we had just transformed the world! After
dinner we hopped into our limo where cosmos where were waiting
for our next trip to one of my favorite dance clubs. We
walked hand in hand and arm in arm all night and we felt
like teenagers that couldn’t keep our hands off each
other! He is an amazing dancer and we had so much fun dancing
to just about every song! He had reserved a “couch”
for us to retreat to between dancing breaks. We both felt
so comfortable just being quiet and looking into each other’s
eyes! At closing time we moved back into the limo and made-out
in the limo on the way home. He knew just how to touch me
to make me tingle and shudder. At my house, he walks me
to the door and holds me tight before giving me an amazing
kiss good nite. He told me he had a wonderful night and
thanked me for it. He wanted to know when he could see me
next and we set up the next date. I felt like a queen and
was high from the great evening of adoration!
3. Visualize every day you having this date. Pick a time
to do this visualization. Believe you can have it, feel the
feelings of having it. Remember that your thoughts and feelings
are very powerful so start thinking of the things you want
to have in your life!
4. Just who is this fabulous person you will be going out
on a date with? Write it all out. Don’t just list their
physical stats, write out how they behave, what their personality
is like, how they relate to you, what are they like socially
and spiritually. What does the person do when you succeed
or when you fail? How do they handle money, affection and
child rearing?
5. Again visualize every day this person who you will share
your life with.
6. Be grateful for what you already have and choose your
life like it is now! Stop resisting how your life turned out—like
it “should” have turned out another way—give
that up, really look at what a great life you have! List out
everything in your life that you are grateful for. Read this
list daily.
7. Turn yourself ‘On’. Stand up straight, head
up high and just start laughing. Keep a pleasant, happy face
on and be approachable! What Vibe do you want to project!
What do you want others to first notice about you? Be that—turn
it on! I call it your ‘Mojo Vibe’ for short (Mojo
means Personal Magnetism).
8. Everyday make eye contact, smile and give a happy “Hi”
with at least 5 men and 5 women. Whether you are at the grocery
or just walking down the hall at work, really play the game
of giving those people a part of you that day!
9. Take chances with people that want to engage with you
and vice versa! Make that second look, say hi back, linger
close by to give them a chance to engage with you, walk by
them again, or ask them a question. Remember to always give
them your eyes! ?
10. If you don’t get the response you want from someone,
just remember ‘Next’! There really are plenty
of fish in the sea! Think abundance, abundance, abundance!
It really is as easy as this. Try it out exactly as detailed
here for the next 30 days and let me know what happens! I
expect to hear amazing stories so please send them to this
email address: janet@mojo-maker.com.
Happy Attracting!
What is your Product’s Packaging Projecting?
March 2007
Whether you realize it or not, YOU are really the Product
you are trying to sell not the item or service you are actually
selling! First thing people see when they meet you for the
first time is the Packaging of Your Product! And they form
an opinion about that packaging whether we like it or not—we
do it all they time no matter how enlightened we try and make
ourselves! We notice people’s teeth, body language and
clothes and we instantaneously make quick calls about people—they
are confident, they have poor hygiene or they are rich—just
by looking at their packaging!
So just how is the Packaging of the Product of You? Does
it project what you want your Customers to see or does it
confuse them? If you are a lawyer and wear T-shirts and jeans
all the time or outdated suits, customers aren’t likely
to take you seriously at first contact and may have to be
convinced otherwise to remove that first initial impression!
As you can see the Packaging of a Product is very Important!
So to effectively sell the Product of You, you must make
sure the packaging is consistent with what you would like
to Project to the customer! So the first action item is to
really look at what DO you want to Project to your customers?
Who are you, what would make you memorable and unique and
want customers to buy from you? What would make you stand
out in a crowd of other lawyers, real estate agents or interviewees
for a job?
Think about this and list out the wonderful attributes of
you! Ask your co-workers or friends to help you with this
list, you might be touched what great things they tell you
about you or/and you might be surprised by some things you
didn’t realize you didn’t intend to project! All
of it is great feedback! Circle the ones that you like and
from the circled items, pick 3 attributes that really call
to you as to who You are and what you want your customers
to know about you! We will call this Your Brand. Some examples:
a Witty, Driven, Lawyer or a Savy, Creative, Software Developer.
Now look at that Brand and see what there is to do to make
your Packaging or Image consistent with your Brand? Perhaps
a new hair style is in order, or updated suits or shoes…maybe
even new business cards, a new car or new voice message on
your answering machine? If you just have no idea about what
there is to do, outside input could be what you need to move
you into action! Ask an Image savy friend or hire an impartial
Image Consultant/Coach who will not be afraid to tell it like
it is and get you to where you really want to be…which
is People Purchasing the Product of YOU!
Happy Packaging and Projecting!
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